Archive for January, 2011
What I do in relationship mentoring
I work with both men and women who want to be in relationship and aren’t or who find the relationship there in is failing.
I’m not a pick up artist so I don’t teach seduction.
What I work with you around is all about attraction, how you can be attractive as your true authentic self to attract the person who is a natural fit and match for you.
Many people say that they aren’t attractive and not just women. A lot of men have told me is that the reason they became interested in learning seduction techniques was that they believed they were so unattractive that they had no other alternative.
Women know a lot about making themselves look beautiful on the outside but sometimes all that hard work doesn’t make them feel special enough on the inside where it really counts.
So both men and women end up compromising themselves for the relationship that happens that’s better than nothing. And then when that inevitably doesn’t work out whether that’s the morning after the night before or after the years of marriage there is the realisation that they’ve wasted all that time.
What I do is really simple. Yet in many ways extraordinarily profound. I teach you how to access the authentic inner you that is naturally attractive. And most important of all I teach you how to make good decisions based upon reawakening your intuitive good decision making skills.
I’m one of the few people in the world licensed to use the proprietary technology of the MythoSelf process. I’m also a trained hypnotherapist with a specialism in Self Relations Psychotherapy.
But I don’t put you in a trance, I wake you you from the trance you’ve been in, the negative trance filled with problems, and teach you to go where the problem is not.
Everyone has a natural attraction or charisma, but most people have learnt to hide this and hide it so well that they’ve forgotten where they’ve hidden it. As a baby or young child people just looked at you and smiled. The reason they smile is that recognition in themselves for something they’ve lost. Sometimes they have a warm and hearty and deep felt smile that comes with a laugh of recognition of reconnection to that. At other times it is a more wistful smile when they can’t get in touch with what it is that they’ve lost. What they’ve lost is the connection with what Roye Fraser called the Generative Imprint. In the November 1990 issue of Anchor Point magazine Roye describes his creation the Generative Imprint in the following way:
“Accessing the Generative Imprint can, in fact, be thought of as a philosophical experience at the highest level; it is spiritual or metaphysical. The Generative Imprint is enigmatic and elusive, and, at the same times carries with it an enormous drive. What it all adds up to is a feeling; as Source is actualized, there is an internal proprioceptive sensation. The resulting sensation serves as the INTENT which propels the individual to engage in behaviours that MOVE TOWARD outcomes aligned with the positive beliefs and values associated with the Generative Imprint.”
Joseph Campbell described the process as “following your bliss.” “If you follow your bliss, you put yourself on a kind of track that has been there all the while, waiting for you; and the life that you ought to be living is the one you are living. Wherever you are – if you are following your bliss you are enjoying that refreshment, that life within you, all the time.”
Roye Frasers student Dr. Joseph Riggio developed the Generative Imprint into the MythoSelf process which he taught to me. There is no one else teaching the Generative Imprint. When you learn how to reconnect to your Generative Imprint you regain access to that vital elixir, that life-force, the juice of life that powers your natural charisma and you become attractive.
Then when you connect that to understanding how through the process of enculturation you have learned to override your intuitive decision making process and reawaken that process recalibrating it so that it now works effectively you can not just attract someone who is right for you but know they are the right person for you. If you’re interested in working with me directly you can find out moreĀ here.
